One of the greatest challenges in life is to live an integrated life where our values, practices, spiritual commitments and convictions are the same in all realms of life. Often this is not the case and it is why many Christ followers seemingly follow one set of rules in the marketplace and another in the church and can excuse behaviors or practices at work that they know do not please God.
Stephen Green, in his book Good Values: Choosing a Better Life in Business puts it succinctly.
“Compartmentalization -– dividing up life into
different realms with different ends and subject to different rules –- is a
besetting sin of human beings.
"Compartmentalization is a refuge from
ambiguity; it enables us to simplify the rules by which we live in our
different realms of life, and so avoid – if we are not careful – the moral and
spiritual questions. One of the most obvious and commonplace manifestations of
the tendency to compartmentalize is seeing our work life as being a neutral
realm in which questions of value (other than shareholder value) or of
rightness (other than what is lawful) or of wisdom (other than what is
practical) need not arise.
"But there are many other ways in which we
compartmentalize our lives. Work, family, friends, society – these are
different (though often partially overlapping) realms of life, and it is all
too easy, in a thousand ways, to play to different rules in each of them.
"These
different realms of being also overlap with the inner realm of the self (though
none of them completely): by what star does that inner self navigate? And would
it even know when it is off course? Compartmentalization helps to shut such
questions out"
Compartmentalization creates a divided self because it allows inconsistency within our own lives. A divided self is not a whole or healthy self for it is by definition at odds with itself. That dissonance creates issues of conscience in the short run and a dimmed conscience in the long run. Eventually the dissonance becomes normal and we are no longer sensitive to what is truly right and what is truly wrong.
It is easy to spot compartmentalization in the lives of others. It is harder to spot it in our own and is one of the reasons we need to surround ourselves with others who can and will challenge us to follow Jesus in all areas of life.
Compartmentalization is responsible for giving Jesus a bad name as those who watch us see that our espoused values are not lived out in our lives. One of the best things we can do is to identify a set of values that we believe reflect Jesus well and live them out in every sphere of life. No compartmentalization, no dissonance, just wholeness!
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